"How Will You Know?" [Pendulum Perspective]

In this series, we'll explore the Pendulum Process, where we examine different aspects of life through a pendulum perspective. We will explore how to discuss both sides of a focus, define the edges, and help people discern what's next.

So there I was coaching a young go-getter who had ANOTHER great idea. 

This guy was a genius. Full of passion. Devoted to God, his family, and furthering the kingdom! He's the real deal. I'm not sure exactly what God has for him, but I definitely feel honored to know him and to walk with him in this season of his life.

So, what's the problem? Glad you asked. 

This wasn't Joe*'s first great idea. He is one of those people who is loaded with great ideas. You know the kind. It can seem they have a different plan every time you talk to them. And all of them are viable. Some of them actually move on, but often they bite off more than they can chew. 

I didn't serve Joe well the day he proposed this particular idea. Instead, I listened and partnered with h...

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What On Earth Are You Doing? (For Heavens' Sake?)

I was reading the parable of the talents recently - you know the one where the guy decides simply to hide what he was given since he knows the Master is exacting. It hit me differently this time. The Master did not give clear instructions; he just said to do something with what they were given.

So, the question may not be "What should I do?" but "What have I been given to do something with?" Food for thought about choices! 

Perhaps we/I make too big a deal about hearing from the Holy Spirit to discern next steps?

Is it fear that I didn't hear clearly that holds me back?

What if God simply wants me to do something with what I have been given?

This begs the question - what have I been given? 

Here are some thoughts I came up with - we have all been given certain personality traits, interests, strengths (and weaknesses), relationships, resources, intellectual capabilities, emotional awareness, and more.

And now I have choices. I can wait for a "sign" to do something, I can try thi...

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