But Really ~ What's Holding You Back? (2 ways to use this empowering question)
When thinking about a decision it can be helpful to weigh the pros and cons. Personally, I like to write them out and then take them to an "altar" in prayer and talk to God.
I say something like, "Here we go God, this is what I can see, but you know it all. Help me choose wisely and guide me with Your Spirit!"
Sometimes, I think He gives me the choice myself and encourages me to just decide, and sometimes I feel a certain sense of what I should do. Occasionally, He drops something in my mind or heart that is new information that helps guide me toward the wise choice.
Then, I ask myself this question: What's holding you back?
If the honest answer is fear of any kind: fear of the unknown, fear of how I will perform, or fear of first (I've never done anything like this before), then I calm my soul and ask God for the courage to say "yes".Ā
I can not let fear guide my life choices.
As promised, there are two ways you can use this empowering question.Ā
1) You can use this question wh...
April's Quest! What's Your Next?
As I sat down to write this blog many times, I ended up getting interrupted by one of my 4 girls, my phone reminding me of the demands of lifeā¦ or the laundry buzzer cutting through any ounce of concentration.Ā
Here I am though at 12:08 am determined to blog away. Itās finally quiet and time to introduce myself.
I could tell you about my really awesome husband, our girls that keep life exciting, the different jobs I work from home or the other important things (well, I sure think they are important) that I do.Ā
But, really, if there is one thing I want people to hear about, itās how God poured His love into my heart at a young age, won my affection for life and silenced all wondering in my seeking teenage girlās heart. He laid a solid foundation of acceptance that has stood strong through many storms.
Because I have experienced such security, I canāt help but want to see others enjoy that freedom as well. What a privilege it is to be loved so perfectly and be able to love.Ā
I ha...
What If The "Greater Things" Are Not What We Thought They Were?
"I tell you the truth, whoever believes in me will do the same things that I do. Those who believe will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father." John 14:12
I always assumed that the "greater things" in this verse were physical miracles,Ā and maybeĀ theyĀ are, but what if....
What if the transformation of hearts and minds is the bigger, better, goal Jesus was talking about?
Is this why He was always telling people not to talk about the miracles they had experienced? Perhaps He valued the kingdom principles he was revealing to the world even more than the physical relief.
Really isn't that the longer play?
All of the people Jesus healed on earth are now gone, but the lives transformed live on forever!Ā
In Matthew 7:22-23, Jesus says, "On judgment day many will say to me, āLord! Lord! WeĀ prophesied in your name and cast out demons in your name and performed manyĀ miracles in your name.āĀ Ā But I will reply, āI never knew you. Get away from me, you who break Go...
Saboteurs Whisper To Us All... Can you identify their voices?
Saboteurs whisper to us all, theyĀ sound likeĀ friends,Ā they seem wise, but they infiltrate our minds like a poison that tastes sweet.
Discipleship saboteurs say things like,
- if you don't tell them what to do, they will mess things up, it's just the responsible thing to do
- it will take too long for them to move forward with coaching, they would be better off if you justĀ tell them what to do
- it's wrong for you to withhold your story if you went throughĀ whatever they are going through, they should learn from your mistakes and do it just like you
The best poison is only a small percent deadly, but if you take it in you will eventually die...
Using coaching as the Biblical way of discipleship helps people build their own relationship with God.Ā
Coaching builds disciples not dependents.
Coach training can teach you how!
Saboteurs whisper their hopelessness on the other side of coaching as well. Coaches have helped me discern many of the following as limiting beliefs that needed t...
Did You Make Sarah's Mistake? (The Truth About Coaching!)
āCoaching?! I bet Iād be great at coaching! I love when people come to me for the answers to figure out their life. Because, to be honest, most peopleās lives are messed up and I usually know what they should do...ā
I look back and laugh now, but Iām pretty sure that was basically my thought when I first heard about coaching. People who are bad at managing their life hire someone to manage it for them, right??
Boy, did I have some perspectives shift over the next few years!
Let me tell you a little of my coaching journey:
I took my first coaching course, Coaching Culture, because of a desire to help other people. But I needed help first.
- I needed to learn to let go - to trust that God is speaking to everyone and that they can hear Him for themselves.
- I had to release my āneed to be neededā and recognize that the best coaching empowers and gives support for growth.
- I needed to learn how to listen, how to REALLY listen, with curiosity, insight, and trust, not just analyzing to ...
Single Question Biblical Leadership Test (Do you lead like Jesus?)
I believe if you are a believer then you are a leader, because whether you like it or not, whether you realize it or not, people are expecting you to model Biblical living.Ā
It's not easy, but it can be simple. Ā
YOU DON'T NEED TO BE PERFECT,Ā but you do need to be intentionally growing and authentic about your pursuit of becoming like Christ. Ā
So what was Jesus really like? What did He promote as leadership? Ā
Matthew 23:11 says, "Whoever is your servant is theĀ greatestĀ among you."Ā Ā
In my opinion, serving is theĀ best, hardest, and yet simplest lifestyle choice we can make as believers. Let me explain. Ā
It isĀ bestĀ because Jesus called us to it. His Kingdom ways are upside down from the world. Ā
It isĀ hardestĀ because it does not come naturally, it requires practice and patience as we all learn how to realize who He is to us and reflect Him to others. Ā
It isĀ simplestĀ when we just let go. I've recently learned I have a problem with being over-responsible (yes, that is a thing)...
Next Level Coach Training - Private Registration Page
Next Level Coach training is not available to everyone- in fact, it's a private registration page you can't even find on the Bridges website.
But we wanted to share a shout-out to our alumni that thisĀ year'sĀ Next Level Coach TrainingĀ registration is open till Aug 20 or the cohort gets filled.
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If you are a Bridges Certified Life CoachĀ and you are interested in leveling up your coaching competency, getting credentialed with ICF or CCNI, or working as a Bridges coach training facilitator or associate coach, this course could be for you.
Check out theĀ course detailsĀ (there's so much in there!)Ā and then check out the discount details below!
Two ways to register:
- Pay full price upfront Total - $2,250.
- Use the payment plan of $600 per month. Total - $2400Ā
Honestly, I know this is a huge investment but the payoff is huge as well!
Let me know if you have any questions and may God guide your every next!
Building Bridges together,
Cindy
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Coach Training Isn't Just For Professionals
Here are 5 other people groups we have seen benefit fromĀ coaching certification.
Parents
What a surprise! So many alumni took the training for another reason, but it has significantly affected their parenting. Whether their kids are preschoolers or full-blown adults, coaching shifts not only the conversation but especially the results!
Friends
Ever have a friend that keeps talking to you about the same thing(s) over and over. It's like they are stuck on repeat with the situation they are facing. A couple good coaching questions could change everything!
Adult Children
Talking to your parents about decisions they need to makeĀ as they age can be difficult. Coach training gives you the conversational tools to help create awareness without telling others what to do.
Business Leaders
Coaching isn't only for spiritual growth. Collaborative and self-motivated goalĀ affiliation affects buy-in, productivity, longevity, camaraderie, and other vital markers in an organization. It's a win-wi...
Coach Training Isn't Easy -- But It Is Totally Worth It!
...In fact, you should probably think it through before you consider it.
Itās not easy changing a personal paradigm, and almost everyone needs to make major adjustments.
Itās costly, not just monetarily, but it will take time and effort. Itās intense.
To be honest, itās humbling.
Itās one thing to affirm the concept in theory and another to put its values into regular practice.
BUT IT IS TOTALLY WORTH IT!
Coaching changed my life AND it has changed the people around me.
Here are some ways I have seen it actually accomplish end goals that would never have happened if I had not taken coach training.
- Interactions with family are different now.
* Marriage: One of the best surprises in my coach training was how it affected my marriage. I didnāt see that coming as I simply intended to use coaching in ministry, but what a wonderful asset it is to be able to love my husband more by listening well, believing in him, and hearing how the Holy Spirit is leading him.
* Adult children: Befo ...
Serendipity Brought Us Together. Is It Calling You? (Guest Blog by Michelle Pavasars)
āSo, what do you do?ā
A simple question asked of the woman sitting beside me at a wedding rehearsal over five years ago.
A simple question that launched me into the next thing God was calling me to in my coaching journey.
I am the brideās childhood best friend. She, the groomās sister-in-law. Now we journey together in this world of coachingā¦ believing in the serendipity, or āGod-incidence,ā of that dayā¦ embracing the joy of walking alongside others as they seek change, growth, and transformation.
God continues to unfold my coaching journey one step at a time.
That moment five years ago introduced me to Cindy Scott and led me to Bridges Coaching. I began with the Destiny by Design course, and simply kept saying, āyesā to each next thingā¦ Coaching Training, Accelerated Coach Training, being a peer pair facilitating coach, the NXL Advanced Coach Training, and various coaching opportunities along the way.
Learning about coachingā¦ being coachedā¦ and coaching othersā¦ has helped me gro...